Healing the Mother Wound Online Course

A “Mother Wound” refers to the trauma that comes from a difficult relationship with your mom or mother figure. It can manifest in various ways, impacting self-esteem, relationships & overall well-being.

This can impact you if your mom was absent, deceased, or even if your mother was present yet emotionally unavailable, unstable or abusive.

I Was a Wounded Woman

I used to play the “strong black woman” but lacked confidence + emotional balance. I was a professional people pleaser. Always putting others before myself and staying in toxic relationships with 0 boundaries.

At work, I jumped in my Alpha Woman bag down to the lining! Working in tech, I was competitive, ruthless & overly focused on titles / achievements. I thought maybe if I “won” at work, the imposter syndrome would go away.

It didn’t. I wore a mask of leadership while criticizing my talent, body and more. I had to confront what was really hurting me.

I grew up with a busy executive mom and while she loves me, her absence early in my life due to frequent work travel left me feeling like I wasn’t a priority. Between that and being separated from both of my grandmothers at 7 to migrate to the US…That created wounds that I battled for years.

Doing the work I share in this course changed my own life. It helped me repair the relationship with my mom. It allows me to show up everyday, imperfectly but feeling worthy. Ready to serve + receive the blessings with my name on them! Able to regulate my thoughts and nervous system to hold more beauty, abundance & support than ever.

We can’t fix our moms but we can embrace the past & step into our full potential! Join me Saturday 3/21 OR Sunday 3/22 at 5pm EST

xo, Nikki Valentine

$44.00
One time

Course is trauma-informed and backed by Traditional and Spiritual Psychology, Polyvagal Theory and Somatic / EFT Practices.

✓ Immediate access to Course Content
✓ 90 minute Live Session Private YouTube Stream 3/21 5PM EST
✓ 4 In-depth Downloadable Guides
✓ 4 Audios to Shift Your Self-Concept & Balance the System
✓ Unlimited lifetime access

You Will Learn….

+ Family Patterns & Your Inherited Identity

How your mother figure shaped your self-concept and impacts your confidence.

+ Level Up Without Burnout (or B*tchiness)

How to release hardness, performance and imposter syndrome from your leadership style. Learn how the mother wound affects your career and business.

+ Intimacy….With Yourself & Others

How the love we learned keeps us from attracting and growing healthy relationships. You’ll see beauty and pleasure as a deserved state and not a reward.

+ Energetic Work to Stabilize Your System

Mindset shifts, Journal Questions, Identity- Rewiring Audio Meditations + Somatic Exercises you can do to make permanent changes.

  • “I didn’t realize how much of my life was being run by a version of me that was constantly bracing. This work didn’t hype me up. It settled me which is what I needed.. I feel more grounded, more selective, and strangely more powerful without trying.”

    — Lauren M.

  • “I’ve done therapy, coaching, and all the ‘inner work.’ This was the first time something actually changed how I show up day to day. I’m making cleaner decisions. I’m not over-explaining. My life feels quieter but in a really good way.”

    — Naomi T.

  • “Nothing dramatic happened — and yet everything shifted. I stopped forcing clarity and started trusting myself again. The biggest difference is I can actually hold the changes instead of slipping back.”

    — Elena S.

  • “This helped me see how much of my competence was actually a survival strategy. I didn’t lose my edge — I lost the exhaustion. That alone was worth it.”

    —Maya L.

  • “I expected insight. What I got was relief. I feel more at home in myself, and my standards have changed without me needing to announce them. People respond to me differently now.”

    — Sofia K.